>> A BRASSY BY JP MORGAN CHASE
THE BANK THAT ADVANCES WOMEN.
IT'S OLD ISN'T EASY AND IT CAN
REALLY.
OUR NEXT GUEST HAS DEVELOPED A
SYSTEM TO KEEP TRACK OF HER.
AND FOCUS ON FAIRNESS TO HELP
PARTNERSHIPS THRIVE WE SAT DOWN
WITH IRAQ.
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>> THE FIRST OFFICER WITH A
FAIR PLAY DOESN'T MEAN.
IT DOESN'T MEAN SO I LIKE TO
SAY IS AT 5050'S
AROUND EQUATION. THE FOCUS ON
FAIRNESS OR AS I LIKE TO CALL
OWNERSHIP EVERYTHING CHANGES IN
THE HOME.
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>> SO WHEN WE TALK ABOUT
OWNERSHIP WHEN WE TALK ABOUT
WE'RE TALKING WITH THE TASKS AT
HOME, SOME OF THE INVISIBLE
LABOR THAT YOU MENTIONED SO
WALK US THROUGH WHAT THESE
THINGS ARE THAT YOU'RE NOT
>> I WILL SAY EVERYTHING YOU
NEED TO KNOW ABOUT FAIR PLAY
YOU CAN BOIL DOWN TO
ONE WORD. AND THAT WORD IS
MUSTARD COUNTS PLAY AGAIN.
>> I'M SO IN
MOST HOUSEHOLDS, SOMEONE
RECOGNIZES THINGS GOING ON
RIGHT SO SAVE IT SAYS TALK
ABOUT MUSTARD YOU
NOTICE YOUR SECOND SON JOHNNY
LIKES FRENCH'S
YELLOW MUSTARD AND IT'S HOT DOG
AND HE WANTED
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HIS PROTEIN UNLESS HE HAS THAT
MUSTARD SO I CALL THAT
CONCEPTION.
YOU WRITE DOWN A LIST MUSTARD
YELLOW FRENCH'S MUSTARD
ALONGSIDE WITH YOUR OTHER
GROCERIES FOR THE WEEK FOR YOUR
MEALS. I CALL THAT PLANNING.
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SOMEONE HAS TO GET THERE BUT TO
THE STORE ACTUALLY PURCHASED
THE MUSTARD. I CALL THAT
EXECUTION.
AND THAT'S WHERE MEN OFTEN STEP
IN AND THAT'S UP PROBLEM
BECAUSE INEVITABLY.
A MAN WILL BRING
HOME SPICY DIJON WHEN YOU ASKED
FOR FRENCH'S YELLOW AND THEN
MIDDLE OVER THE COUNTRY ARE
SAYING TO ME I CAN'T GET
ANYTHING RIGHT AND WHEN ALL THE
WAY THE STORE FOR
MY WIFE AND SHE'S ONLY BECAUSE
I'VE BEEN ON THE RUN TO
THE MUSTARD AND WOMEN ARE
SAYING TO ME HOW CAN I TRUST
ANYTHING SERIOUS LIKE MY LIVING
WILL IF HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW
HOW TO PURCHASED THE RIGHTS OF
THEM A STERN AND SO IT'S A
TRUST CYCLE THAT HAPPENS OVER
AND
OVER AGAIN SO FAIRPLAY IS BASED
ON KEEPING THE CONCEPTION
PLANNING EXECUTION. ALWAYS ONE
PERSON BECAUSE WHEN YOU OWN
YOUR.
THAT IS ONLY THINGS MORE
EFFICIENT BUT PARTNERSHIPS ARE
THRIVING IN A
PARTNERSHIP THEN.
>> WHAT ARE THE STEPS YOU
SHOULD TAKE TO MAKE SURE THAT
OWNERSHIP DOES EXIST AND TO AND
YOU LITERALLY DIVIDE
UP TASKS, THE WHOLE TASKS
AMONGST PEOPLE ARE HOW DOES
THAT WORK IN A IN
A PARTNERSHIP.
>> THE GREAT QUESTION FAIR PLAY
IS ACTUALLY THE HEART OF IT IS
A CARD GAME SO I GIVE YOU THE
TOOLS TO DO THAT THE REASON WHY
I USE
CARDS IS BECAUSE THEY MAKE
DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS REALLY
FINE SO FAIRPLAY HAS A 100
CARDS AND EACH PERSON HOLDS
CARDS THAT REPRESENT ALL THAT
IT TAKES TO RUN YOUR HOME
AND RAISE A FAMILY THERE 60
CARD IF YOU DON'T HAVE CHILDREN
YOUR PARTNER AND 40 ADDITIONAL
ONE IF YOU DO THAT MAY MAKE
EVERYBODY OUT THERE. THAT WILL
HAVE A TON OF WHETHER THEY WANT
TO HAVE CHILDREN. ADS 40 CARDS,
YOUR
DAD LOVE BUT WHEN YOU'RE
HOLDING THE CARD AS I SAID
YOU'RE HOLDING THE FULL GROCERY
CARD FOR EXAMPLE, THE FULL
MUSTARD SITUATIONS SO FROM
CONCEPTION OF PLANES EXECUTION.
I'LL GIVE YOU AN EXAMPLE OF HOW
IT STARTED IN MY HOME, MY
HUSBAND FAST.
HE'S TO SAY
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THAT HE WAS IN CHARGE OF THE
EXTRACURRICULAR SPORTS FOR MY
SON. AND THAT MEANT
FOR HIM
THAT HE WAS SHOWING UP TO
LITTLE LEAGUE FIELD
ON SATURDAY.
>> JUST AHEAD OF IT YES, IT IS
REALLY HELPFUL OFFSET AND
BECAUSE I CALL THIS BECAUSE
THIS IS CALLED
INVISIBLE WORK. THERE IS STUFF
LIKE I SAID THE CONCEPTION
PLANNING BEHIND THE SCENES THAT
A RECENT HARVARD
STUDY SHOWS WOMEN ARE DOING AND
I FOUND IN MY RESEARCH AS WELL
SO WHEN I SAT DOWN
WITH HIM BUT THINGS ARE CALM
AND WE STARTED PLAYING FAIR
PLAY AND I GAVE HIM CONTACT OF
ALL THE OTHER THINGS I
WAS DOING BEHIND THE SCENES THE
CONCEPTION PLAN AND LIKE
FIGURING OUT WHO MY KIDS SHOULD
PLAY WITH WHAT SPORTS. THEY
PLAY WHAT LEAK SHOULD THEY
PLAY ON WHERE IS THIS THE
PORTAL TO FILL OUT THE FORMS
WITH CREDIT CARD INFORMATION
YOU NEED TO SIGN
THEM UP WHERE THEIR PRACTICES
HOW DO I GET THEM CAR PULL TO
GO TO THE PRACTICE IS PEELING
SNACKS LIKE ORANGES FOR
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SNACK DAY SOMEHOW I GOT IT.
RANGING THE VENMO FOR THE
COACHES GET.
THAT'S ALL THAT WAS HAPPENING
BEHIND THE SCENES AND THEN
FINALLY SET TO OVER EVERY
SINGLE THING THAT WAS REQUIRED
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TO GET MY SON'S THE LILYFIELD
ON SATURDAY.
THINGS CHANGE IN MY HOUSEHOLD
AND NOT ONLY THAT I GOT 8 HOURS
A WEEK OF MY TIME BACK
MY TIME.
>> YOU IDENTIFIED THE PROBLEM
YOU TOOK ACTION TO FIX THE
WRITE A BOOK ABOUT IT HOW DID
YOU EVEN WE KNOW HOW TO GET
THERE HOW DID YOU KNOW THE FAIR
PLAY THIS THE SYSTEM THAT YOU
CAME UP WITH WAS THE RIGHT WAY
TO GO. WELL, I'M AN
ORGANIZATIONAL MANAGEMENT
SPECIAL S.
>> AND A MEDIATOR.
SOME TRAINS USE MY VOICE AND
TRAINING SYSTEMS ON THE
SPECIALLY TRAINED IN CARDS HAVE
BEEN
USING CARDS AND CARD GAMES HAVE
VERY VERY DIFFICULT
CONVERSATIONS OF MY CLIENTS
OVER THE
PAST DECADE. AND I REALIZE THAT
THERE'S REAL BENEFIT IN SYSTEMS
IN THE WORKPLACE. AND
IN ORGANIZATIONS AND WHAT I
MEAN BY THAT IS THAT IMAGINE
JUST IMAGINE WALKING INTO YOUR
BOSS'S OFFICE AND SITTING DOWN
AND SAYING.
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HEY SO WHAT SHOULD I BE DOING
TODAY IS GOING TO WAIT HERE
UNTIL YOU TELL ME WHAT TO DO.
MAN I DIDN'T THINK HE WOULD
LAST A FULL DAY NO ABSOLUTELY
NOT NETFLIX THEY CALL IT THE
RARE
RESPONSIBLE PERSON WHERE YOU
NEVER WAIT TO BE TOLD WHAT TO
DO. APPLE COINED A TERM CALLED
THE DRI
THE DIRECTLY RESPONSIBLE
INDIVIDUAL OR YOU OWN SOMETHING
FROM START
TO FINISH. PEOPLE COME AND HELP
YOU LEARN THAT YOUR PARTNER MY
SYSTEM ON SOMETHING FROM START
TO FINISH. AND SO WHEN YOU
START READING THE HOME MAKING
GIVE THE HOME SOME RESPECT AND
RIGOR THAT
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IT DESERVES BY THE WAY WE TREAT
OUR WORKPLACES.
THINGS STARTED TO CHANGE ALL
OVER THIS COUNTRY FOR ALL THE
COUPLES WERE BETA TESTING THE
SYSTEM.
>> I LOVE THAT IN ITS PEAK IN
TERMINOLOGY OF THE TERM CALLED
UNICORN SPACE YES THAN WHAT
THAT MEANS.
>> OH MY GOD, I LOVE YOU CAN
STAY, THANK YOU FOR ASKING YOU
TO CURRENT SPACE LIKE THE
MYTHICAL ACLINE UNICORN SPACE
IS CREATED AND IT'S BEAUTIFUL
AND IT'S FOR YOU, BUT IT
DOESN'T FREE CAN EXIST.
♪
FOR WOMEN OF THESE AND LET ME
RECLAIM IT.
I LIKE
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TO SAY YOU DESERVE TO BE
INTERESTED IN YOUR OWN LIFE.
AND AFTER WE BECOME PARENTS AND
PARTNERS AND WORKERS. THE LAST
THING THAT
WE DO IT'S 2 THINGS FOR US THE
STUDIES SHOW 90% OF WOMEN PUT
EVERYBODY ELSE'S.
NEEDS BEFORE OURS AND SO WHAT I
LIKE TO SEE IS NOT ONLY IS
UNICORN SPACE THIS IDEA OF
WHAT YOUR PASSIONS ARE WHAT
MAKES YOU UNIQUELY YOU AND HOW
DO YOU SHARE THAT WITH THE
WORLD, SOMETIMES IT'S YOUR JOB,
SOMETIMES IT'S NOT
I'M A WOMAN RIGHT NOW WITH TINY
SHE'S PERFECTING RHUBARB HE'S
AGAINST RHUBARB THE REALLY HARD
INGREDIENT TO WORK WITH AND
PIES AND PIE BAKING
IS HER DREAMS TO THE DENTAL
HYGIENIST BY DAY PIE BAKING BY
UNICORN SPACE NIGHT.
AND EVERY SINGLE DAY THAT SHE
DOES THAT THAT'S WHAT MAKES HER
HER AND NOT ONLY IS IT GREAT
FOR A PARTNERSHIP WITH HER
HUSBAND IS SO PROUD OF HER AND
HER PIE BAKING HE POST PICTURES
OF HER PIES ON
HIS INSTAGRAM THAT ACTUALLY
LEADS TO LONGEVITY AND DEPUTY
OUTCOMES FOR MEN AND WOMEN SO
YOU CAN READ MORE ABOUT IN THE
BOOK BUT I'M OBSESSED WITH YOU
KNOW GREEN SPACE.
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